These are some of the most frequently asked questions that I come across while doing this work- perhaps yours are here! I do ask that all potential minions read through ALL of the information on this page before inquiring through email or phone. If you have a question that is NOT answered here, feel free to ask! I do not judge!
Q.What exactly would You do to me if i had a session with You?
A. Each session is different and individual. I do not do one-size-fits-all dominance. After our initial contact I will think about the information that you have given me. We will negotiate the session so that stated boundaries are respected and that there are no unpleasant surprises on either part. I use safe words, so that if something becomes too intense for you, there is a way for you to communicate about it. However, it is impossible to tell someone exactly what I would do with them after five minutes of phone conversation or e-mails!
Q Are you an escort?
A. No, I am most definitely not an escort.
Penal Code Title 9. Chapter 43. Subchapter A. Sec. 43.01-Sec. 43.27
While we are on this topic, let me reiterate that I am a Professional Domme, and I do NOT provide services which are in any way outside of the realms of the law in the State of Texas. This is NOT just a written statement to protect the legitimacy of my advertisement.
I will NEVER provide illegal sexual services to ANY client.
I have attached this link in order for you to educate yourself on the legality of My Profession.
Q. Do You do extended sessions?
I do extended sessions (that meaning anything over 2-1/2 hours and not to exceed 6 hours) for a flat rate. I must feel during our initial contacts that we have good chemistry before confirming anything over 2-1/2 hours.
Q. Do You see couples/women?
A. I very much enjoy seeing couples and women.
Q. Will you do extreme scenes? Will you do consensually non-consensual scenes?
A. I WILL do physically extreme scenes. I have to feel that you understand what you are asking for and I will not do anything that I think is going to damage you in a serious way. I ALWAYS issue a safe word with all of My clients, and are strongly encouraged to use it if they feel that things are becoming too intense, and REQUIRE use of the safe word if physical, emotional, or psychological health is in any way at serious risk.
Q. Do you do outcall or incall?
A. Outcalls: I prefer to use a hotel room that would rate a minimum of 2 or 3 stars on Hotels.com (in other words, no crack motels!!!) If I feel unsafe, I WILL leave! I do not require anything fancy. Something safe and clean. It is the client’s responsibility to secure the hotel room. My bodyguard drives me, insures my safety via a weapons check pat down, & stays within running range, not in the room. **Check Donations on About Me page**
B. Incalls: My bodyguard will be picking you up at a set location & driving you to my dungeon. He insures my safety via a weapons check pat down, & stays within running range, not in the room. **Check Donations on About Me page**
Q. Do you offer Double Domination? Do you have a female submissive who can be in a session with us?
A. Yes, we can discuss using my female dominant partner.
B. No. I do not have a professional submissive.
Q. I am a dominant male – do you have a female submissive I could do a session with alone?
A. No, again, I do not have a professional submissive. DO NOT ASK
Q. I want to learn BDSM. Can you teach me?
A. Depends on skills desired! I start by doing small workshops, but until then, I can teach you either with or without a partner. There is a fee for My time – I negotiate on a case-by-case basis.
Q. I am a woman – can You teach me how to be a Professional Dominatrix?
Here is the short answer: No.
AS PART OF MY FAQ, HERE’S A LIST OF THINGS THAT I COMMONLY ASKED ABOUT WHICH I WILL NOT DO, DON’T BOTHER TO ASK:
I do not do adult infantilism – it is simply not a fetish of Mine.
I will not do scat/brown showers for the same reason. Nor will I do vomit or blood for reasons of sanitation and health safety.
I do not do permanent body modification – permanent piercing, scarification, branding – unless I know you well: meaning at least six sessions.
I don’t do strangulation or choking scenes. This is extremely dangerous. I will do very mild forms of breath play.
I am available to do public play.
I will do long bondage scenes under some circumstances, but I will not do a session where I tie someone up and leave them alone for extremely long periods. This is not a very safe thing to do.
All appointments are for My time only and not for any sexual performance or actions. Money exchanged is for time & companionship only. Anything else that may occur is a matter of personal choice between two or more consenting adults of legal age, and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for or compensated for in any manner. I do not authorize any institutions or individuals the use or to create a copy, in entirety or of any portion, of any of My photos, writings, or profile on this site, current or future, for studies, projects, or any other reason without prior written consent. Any such request for consent must indicate the reason for which the information will be used. This statement pertains to legal matters.
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